Sex eyes of a married man

When I wander on the Internet and come across a truly interesting reflections, I am not haunted by one thought: why write about sexual relationships or single women or single men? Family is not felt to be frank and say nothing?

As far as family life, she often describes as hopeless servitude, freedom from which the best case - the divorce, and even almost to the prescriptions of poisoning his half of the revenue! And some views of living a happy family man on the problems of marriage, sex in marriage is practically no. I will try to fill this gap a bit. All that I write - my personal opinion.

Yes, here again, if someone can say that there is no happy marriages, that the principal have sex somewhere somehow, that men are crushed, and women and oborzeli not the classical and romantic love - I'll bet. I know at least a dozen couples of various ages, from 20 to 50 who live on the canons of a classical marriage, in the best sense of the word. Ie you just need to look at other sociological slice of society. Who said that there is no gentle romantic creatures, dreaming of a prince from a fairy tale? Let's not argue about the reasonableness of such dreams, but people are cultivating them is ... But the answer to that, they say, manners now fallen below baseboard, not the youth, etc.: Yes, you read the classics: "Decameron," "virgin of Orleans", and Mr. Maupassant worth something! Well, look around: what has changed something? Actually nothing. People are all the same, only the housing issue them a little spoiled ...

Many sites are filled with various observations, wishes and recommendations on sexual relations. But all this, for some reason, falls into the category of random, non-permanent connections. I do not like these words, but others long to explain ... A "marriage" sex is considered at best as a marital obligation, and even as a compulsory procedure for the type of washing the feet or headache tablets ... ??

What's to hide - if not a happy sex, almost any, the strongest love dies or goes into another form - the respect, duty, pity, etc. But it would no longer be a complete love. And who of Don Juan ever thought about what to live with one and only one woman in five, ten, fifteen, twenty years? A? Slightly? ... The same biases are painfully familiar to habitual body, forever talking about, it would seem one and the same ... And the cold habits, becoming the highest pleasure in the duty ...

But how nice to see some old people walking arm in arm along the alley or sitting on a bench and gently holding each other's hands. They could not lose his love and carry it through the years and tests. This is not a life for a glass of water before his death, this is love. And one of the main components of this love is just a sexual relationship.

In the early years all naturally beautiful. Get used to each other, learn and probuesh something new, the first time in any way, or even like this. I would not like the hundredth time to describe the stages of knowledge of each other, despite the fact that all they own. But when the first difficulties begin ... As a rule, pregnancy and childbirth. Naturally, it is necessary to limit myself in the manifestation of sexual relations, women in general are very much goes into his attention to the child, there is a lot of household chores, and yes, imagine that at night, in the midst of a love scene is distributed in the best case pohnykivanie your child. This is not a cat, which can be thrown out the door. Hands are sometimes omitted, to say nothing about everything else ...

Washing diapers, a walk, swimming, etc. I said nothing about a lot of stupid advice from their parents, and, naturally, with the best intentions. All this may well destroy the most prosperous family and kill the most faithful love. To overcome all these difficulties, we should very much strength and courage.

It was in this situation and shown the character of this man. How many have the patience to adapt to new conditions, not "run" relationship with his half. It was then and it will take skill and tact in sexual relations. After childbirth, many women are changing habits, sensitive areas, favorite poses ... In a certain respect even interested in the second or more times to learn his "usual" partner.

But after pregnancy, when the years pass so five to seven, the period of stagnation. Everything is sort of tried, have developed some tricks and the usual situation, where both painfully familiar. This is probably the most difficult period. Is here that in many ways and diverge. Simply because to find something new on the side for both. But to keep interest in a permanent partner for many years ... Should really try to make something new in routine sex life. Of course, we must try together, but much depends on the men ...

Which posture is preferable, what sex - a classic, oral, anal? I think everyone should try out, and then decide what is acceptable and what is not - based on personal experience. But the silly claim as evidence of love from a woman that she would agree to something, like swallowing semen, anal sex and other "extravagant" ways to meet ... In general, do not require proof of love from a woman - she can prove it. If you like ...

Cellulite on legs, the figure is not the ... .. I think very often need to look in the mirror, then the criticality in the estimates will be less ... Women do not need to be the best for everyone - it is enough to be the best and most coveted for his beloved. So do the same so that your chosen one feel close to you with confidence, not from complexes about one or another of their shortcomings.

Incidentally, it was from a woman's dissatisfaction with themselves and relationships with the opposite sex grows feminism. If a woman is well with her man, she will not have any extremes (though, as he has). She will intercede for the home, childcare, etc. But if not, watch out, guys! The scariest cat no beast. If you manifest systematic indifference to his beloved, it torment you all sorts of attacks and fault-finding. So, actually, and legends are born to turn the beautiful beloved in a bitch. In general, who is to blame something for this? Yes men themselves to blame. Nothing, as they say in the mirror to blame ...

Women are very sensitive to the various nuances of relationships. One word, one glance, it might discourage a woman's desire to close for several days. Or vice versa - is a desire to light ... If a man can affect the "correct" chord in the soul of a woman, thanks to her does not know borders, including in bed. It is quite likely in this case through a second honeymoon ... This is all to the theme of marriage: the marriage and there may be very bright, saturated with sex, everything depends on the partners themselves.

Many say: "Yes, the fig is all I need - children, snot, diapers, nagging wife, klyanchaschaya money ... it's all Bullshit." Of course, the battle-and gerlfrendy, parties, eternal sense of celebration - it's great. Around full of young, beautiful, unknown. And you still attracts attention. No ... But you will not be forever young. Here would "fit" children, wife ... And if time has been lost - where they get it? Girls, as you know, or are drawn to the young, or for money, but more often - and by that, and to another ...

Of course, there is nothing terrible in the exuberant youth. For example, I no longer drink (a lot) and do not smoke (at all). Feel the difference between the already and never drank or smoked? Ie I do not want bothered. So it is with everything else. Right before saying: "work up - getting married." The main thing - time to understand what is what. With a solid pier is much better than hundreds of fleeting Harbors ...

And another interesting point. Of course, a large number of links provides some experience and a variety of intimate life. BUT! As a rule, any sexual delights is preceded by a standard set of seduction, in America, incidentally, called "3-F": Film - Food - Fuck. And in the intima, too, all eventually boils down to a certain standard. So it turns out that of the lovers' walk "sooner or later - dry mouth ...

Summary. Can not get sexual satisfaction from this simple copulation. It is essential that a harmony of souls. And in a crazy whirlwind extramarital affair will not see and did not attain, no matter how bright and attractive it may appear. Do not hold the youth for reading books or from the monitor screen. But to delay its "rampage" - recklessly. All in good time. The family, a happy marriage, many years of happiness are possible, it is not a fairy tale. Just have to build a happy, together with its one-half, going on each other's assignments and showing understanding. Starting from the kitchen and finishing ... bed.