Monday, November 23, 2009

How do I determine that a man treats you is not serious

Today we talk about the situation when he called, but you creep doubt whether he is interested in continuing the relationship? So, what signals indicate that he is serious, and what conduct should be light "red light"?
It is logical to assume that if a man called you after the meeting, he is interested in the relationship. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. Perhaps he wants to be with you a couple of pleasant, nor to non-binding, evenings, or not sure he wants to meet with you, or he simply nothing better to do on this day. So, the man set lightly, if:

1. He promised to call at the same time, and called later. Not only that, he gave no explanation, he did not even apologized to you.

2. He rings the odd hour, and immediately offers to meet.

3. Your conversation seems pointless, or it is reluctant to answer your questions.

4. When choosing a place, he proposes to go to the men's game: a meeting with his friends, sporting events, sit in the bar, which will be an interesting match. Or meet in the subway, at the monument, drive up to his work or to cross somewhere, when he would go about his business. In other words, it offers exactly what suits him and not you.

5. You never can agree on, or he is constantly put off the meeting with you.

6. At the end of the conversation does not invite you to visit, but uses a common form of denial - the word "созвонимся."

You can be sure that he is serious if:

1. He called the next day and thank you for a nice evening.

2. He called at the appointed time, as promised.

3. During your conversation, he was an attentive listener, seemed responsive, and the conversation was relaxed and interesting for both of you.

4. The man had shown flexibility in discussing the place and time of your meeting, and you realized that he was planning your visit. And in the end of the conversation you have agreed to meet.

Do not waste time on a man who does not know what he wants, or treats you lightly. Of course, you may decide that it suits you, but remember that in any case, you might hurt his indifference.

The man, whom you really like you, surround you of such care and attention that you do not have to worry, that means its behavior. You and so will all clear.

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